Why was I charged a violation...?

When all I said was Good night, kisses, love you? I was only trying to say bye for the day, and they say I commited a violation. I say what I said to everybody I care about in real life, and they don't penalize me. Besides, there are FAR, FAR, FAAAAAAAARRRRR more obscene and offensive questions posted that people should be flat out booted for. What is it with that?